We all know how much it hurts our soul when we get rejected by our divine counterparts, it's a pain like no other. The excruciating pain and the fear that you’ll be denied that unconditional love from them, the rejection, the silence, all of it combined is quite a lot to take and to accept. Although the soul bond suffers a lot during this phase, the love never ceases to exist, and the connection doesn't break. What hurts the most is the separation pain that we see no means to an end.

Free will applies to everyone, including Twin Flames. So you may experience your twin flame choosing to put on hold or stop their involvement in the twin flame journey during your Earthly experience. It is very normal for a twin flame at some point to feel overwhelmed of the journey as it involves a lot of shadow work and healing to fully ascend and to reach the path to union, however, it is equally important that despite the rejection you do NOT chase your twin flame. This will put you in the runner vs chaser dynamic. I have also experienced cases with my clients of unresolved karma or karmic debt from past lives in their twin flame bond.

The good news is that, yes this is reversible but it will take great commitment from you. The bad news is, well there isn't any. You just can't act on impulse and become a chaser despite you wanting to chase them badly!

The rejection

This part can be really confusing for twin flames. From one moment to the next everything goes to shambles and BOOM, REJECTION! At times this can happen due to them feeling anxious, overwhelmed and/or deeply triggered by your bond. It is important to understand that your twin flame’s soul is always going to be on the twin flame journey, however they can exercise their free will to put that journey on hold indefinitely.

Twin flame rejection causes some deep triggers some of the worst kinds of suffering and shadows for both counterparts, even if one is pursuing the path to union and the other one to separation. Another interesting fact is that the runner also hurts themselves when they chose to run from the connection. This is a painful process but comes with great lessons of unconditional love.

An important aspect of rejection is that your twin flame is in fact not rejecting you, they are rejecting the intensity and all possible wounds and shadows of your bond. These roles can sometimes reverse whilst going through separation phase, depending on what sort of issues come up and what factors are at play. In other situations, there’s one twin flame that is more prone to running away from the nature of the bond, and one twin flame who is resilient and committed to doing the work and resolving any potential issues.

Karmic debt & Unresolved karma

In Twin Flame connections, sometimes there is either unresolved karma from the current life or past karmic debt that is causing issues within the connection so it is important to consider this aspect.

As well as having your current life on Earth and for having to clear your own karma, this also happens when you also have numerous lifetimes of karma, each of you on your own and a lot of karma involved in your previous interactions with each other. Although Twin Flames are not karmic in nature, they have a karmic history that affects and influence them.

If you haven’t resolved that karma before you come into contact with your counterpart during this lifetime, karma is going to play up its effects and in a way push you into paying your karmic debt in order to settle these issues.

Overwhelming feelings

The intensity in the twin flame bond can trigger a lot of anxiety and overwhelming feelings in some twin flames. This in turn brings up several shadows, including codependency, commitment phobia, decision paralysis and so on. It is important to understand that if your twin flame is not emotionally and spiritually mature enough to handle these triggers, the entire experience can be quite daunting for them.

At the same time, just your presence and energy is enough to cause one twin to go into spiral due to the intensity of the energy in both of your energetic fields. So they then run from those overwhelming feelings and sensation, by staying far away from you and your bond, hoping that it might somehow go dormant – which it won’t.

The high level of emotional progress that this journey requires also plays part on the intensity of their feelings and sensations, because they know that in order to be with their twin flame they have to face all these shadows and triggers.

Some twin flames ask for some space whilst others reject you blatantly, the feeling is the similar for both scenarios. Sometimes when they ask you for a break is an attempt to get themselves under control, hoping that they will be able to handle things better moving forward.

Feeling stuck or not willing to do the work

In these cases, the twin who has the most shadows and unresolved triggers will try to run away from themselves. Deep down they hope that the shadows will be gone by staying away, but they often find themselves having a rude awakening. Yes, one twin might have triggered them but staying away doesn't remove the shadows or make them suddenly disappear. Once those shadows come to the surface, they will stay there and apply pressure your twin to do the work of overcoming them. The more they avoid it, the worse they become to handle.

At some point, they might become so overwhelmed by the work they have to do that they might simply refuse to do it. This causes a massive block on their journey and it will cause a backtracking in their progress which will increase then pressure to get back on the path towards union.

Of course, this trigger the other twin who chose to heal and move towards the path of ascension and union.

Reversing the situation

Really and truly, the only way to reverse the situation is by focusing on yourself, by healing your own shadows, by doing inner child healing and continuing your own individual path to ascension and union.

Your frequency will always interact with theirs, it is a soul level bond either way, even when you’re in no contact for a long time, the connection still remains intact. Your energies are forever connected, and that won’t fade away or be disconnected at any point in time.

It is no secret that the twin who accepts the journey leads and creates an energetic space for the other twin to follow through, so the higher you manage to get your frequency, the higher you’ll help them get theirs through the energetic interaction of your souls. It is not your job to fix them, because they are not broken. It is also not your role to do their work for them or do enough for the both of you, because that is simply not how it works. What you can offer them is a higher frequency and help them aspire to have it themselves.

One of my favourite ways to interact with my twin flame and to help him however I can is to is to send them some unconditional love that connects our souls and some healing frequencies by meditating on our journey together. I create a ball of light and ask my spirit team to give it to them, if its in line with their highest and best self. This obviously doesn't miraculously fix the connection or reverse any rejection, but it sheds some light in their hearts and helps them to come out of the darkness of their shadows.

Unfortunately, there isn't much more you can do to help the connection to be restored as both of you have to heal separately but you can however work on your own healing and trust in divine timing. Be strong in your faith in the universe and your higher power, but also in the sacred mission your souls have embarked on.